Today is Veterans Day. I am an Army veteran. Today reminds me of the amazing men and women that I had to honor to serve with over the years. As I looked through social media posts and reminisced by looking at pictures of my time in the military, I was struck by how much I have been influenced by those that served with me in uniform.
My entrance into the military was essentially a game of follow the leader. I had friends that were serving. I wanted to know what it was like to wear a uniform and serve my country. I really wanted to know if I could do it. I needed to prove to myself that I was capable of both getting into the military and carrying out the duty to the best of my ability.
I encountered so many different personalities during my journey. They taught me, shaped me, corrected me, encouraged me, and showed me how to be my best. When I lacked courage, they boosted me up. When I was anxious, they reassured me. Whatever I felt, there always seemed to be someone there to encourage me and tell me that I could do it.
Here’s the thing: most of these folks had no idea of the impact that they had on my life. On my growth. They were just doing their job, being themselves. Helping where help was needed. They had no clue how much they helped me grow.
I say all of this to get to this point: Firstly, who has impacted your life? Who helped get you to this point? Think about the people that have impacted your life and your growth into the person you are right now. You have encountered and interacted with many people in your life, and they most likely inadvertently impacted your life in very subtle ways. But that impact created who you are now.
Secondly, think about who you are impacting by your every day actions. Who do you talk with, work with, interact with on a daily basis, and what is your effect on their life? You do have an impact. We all do. You must become aware of the fact that your everyday life, your everyday behavior, your actions or inaction impacts others around you.
We all have an impact. Think of those that have made a difference in your life. Even a miniscule difference. They all add up, and have made you who you are today.
Think about who you may be impacting with your life. It may not seem like much, but you are helping someone grow.
I remain struck by the fact that I needed to prove something to myself by putting on that uniform. I proved it to myself, but not without the men and women that stood beside me. And I am reminded, all these years later, that I still encounter those that help me grow and be the best that I can be. More importantly, I am reminded to be my best, because someone in my life is impacted. Every day.